Parents and Kids: Both Need To Prepare For Pre-School

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By soni2006

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Let's play schools - Pre-School Parenting Program

When it comes to getting some good advice on how to prepare your kids for pre-school or play school, there is a wealth of knowledge available on millions of sites on the Internet but the most important thing which parents forget is that they need to be equally prepared for this event because their state of mind and attitude affects the kid profoundly.

Make a coordinated decision on what age to enroll in preschool

According to some recent studies, it has been revealed that approximately 50% of a kid’s adult intelligence develops in the first four years of age. By the time he/she is 2 to 2-1/2 years old, the kid needs a more stimulating and interesting atmosphere than home for optimal development, so age 2 to 2-1/2 is the perfect for your kid to be admitted in the pre-school. This helps your kid get the right exposure at the right time and a play school also gives them more space to display his/her abilities and performances which was not possible at home due to lack of teammates.

Choose the play school with utmost care

I have seen many parents who choose their play school without giving a second thought just because their cousin’s or friend’s son or daughter got admitted in the same school but this is not good for the overall development of your child because the foundation of kid’s life is laid in the play school or pre-school, so your choice is really crucial. You should choose a play school according to your ideas on kid’s development. Yes, a good pre-school not only requires a well experienced pre-school teacher who is able to handle the kids well but also requires quality equipment, loads of space to perform different types of indoor and outdoor activities, scientific kid-friendly curriculum, co-curricular activities, and a good infrastructure. The teachers, maids, and housekeeping staff should be as polite with your kids as they are with you at the time of your school inspection. Before admission of your child in a pre-school, some other things which need to be taken into account are transportation the school is providing and how far is that play school from your home or office. Once you will make the right decision, you will experience that all your worries will go away.

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Keep calm and stress-free

Most parents become restless when it comes to choosing and sending their kids to school for the first time. They become stressed out because sending their child to the school for the first time is a new thing for them. They need to adapt to the new timings, they need to wake up early, they need to help the kid in brushing teeth, bathing, and dress them up with utmost care so that they look the best but finally when they send their kid to school in the morning, they feel really stressed out, tired, and weak. This happens not just because of increased responsibilities but also because most kids cry at school for the first time and this becomes a worrying situation for parents, but you should not let your child bear the burden of your tension and worries. If you will become brave, he/she will follow you because a parent is an idol for kids. Also, your worries can be easily transferred to your child’s sensitive mind and will just worsen their anxiety.

At last, all kids feel a little lost when they go to school. They miss both parents, mummy and papa, but if you will maintain good communication bonds with your kids and teachers in school, they will get usual to this new change and will adapt themselves according to other senior kids.

Back to school Hub#1 by soni2006
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DiamondRN profile image

DiamondRN 21 months ago

My wife was crushed when my little guy hopped on the bus for the first time. He was so excited about his new adventure that he never even looked back to wave good-bye to her.

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TheManWithNoPants Level 7 Commenter 21 months ago

I had the same experience with my kids as DiamondRN, I'm sure my mom had the same experience with me. I do vagely remember being somewhat aprehensive at times early on with the structured seperation between myself and home. Thanks for this well written and well put together piece.

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Wendy Krick 21 months ago

I think it was harder for me, then my kids. I have 3 kids and I cried each time one of them went to school on that first day.

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soni2006 Hub Author 21 months ago

My daughter never cried on the first day of going to pre-school but she cried a lot on the fourth day and we had to say to her, "Shroni, we both are waiting for you in the reception area" and we will not go anywhere. From that day onwards, she kept on saying to me, Papa, you are waiting for me na?" and I always say "yes my darling, I will be here till you come back from your class and then we will go on a long drive with mummy."

Kids are so innocent and when they cry, our heart goes out. I love my daughter but never shown her my tears because this will make her weak.

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Princessa Level 3 Commenter 21 months ago

It is so true that sometimes it is harder for the parents than for the child to have that "first step" towards independence. Sending our little treasures to school for the first time means opening a new world to them where we as parents are not going to be any longer the centre of our child's world.

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soni2006 Hub Author 21 months ago

You are right Princessa. Kids are our future and we have to take this step so that they go ahead and play their best roles.

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rebekahELLE Level 5 Commenter 21 months ago

soni, this is a wonderful hub and helpful to other parents. most children do very well at preschool and even if she/he has tears for a while, they don't cry long after the parents leave. a good teacher will help ease the transition. when the parent is calm and reassuring, the child will feel this new experience can be trusted. :)

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soni2006 Hub Author 21 months ago

Thanks a lot rebekah for expressing your views on this. Also for this, parents need to have some trust on the school authorities or take in confidence at least the class teacher (good teacher) of the kid.

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swapna123 21 months ago

Nice hub. Parents generally have a tendency to select the school based on it's popularity. We are more likely to seek advice from relatives, collegues or neighbors than from our child. This sometimes makes the transition from home to school quite difficult.

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soni2006 Hub Author 21 months ago

Well said Swapna. Because it's kids who are going to be admitted in school and not anyone else.

Kiki88 21 months ago

Communication with kids' teachers is really important. Kids feel eased much more when they know their parents and teachers are talking about them.

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soni2006 Hub Author 21 months ago

Yes some naughty kids do not feel at ease when their teachers and parents are talking, especially in a parents teacher meeting (it happened with me once).

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